When Losing Isn’t the End: The Jarrovians Men’s Story
When Losing Isn’t the End
The Jarrovians Men’s Story
Some grassroots rugby stories are about trophies. Others are about survival.
Sometimes those paths converge to create a legendary story.
Founded in 1978, Jarrovians RFC, based in the northeast of England, is approaching their 50th anniversary. The club currently supports men’s and women’s sides along with youth programs from U6 to U17. The club offers rugby for players of all abilities.
For their men’s side, the rebuilding process over the past few years has been nothing short of remarkable.
During the 2020/21 season, everything seemed to unravel as the Black & Ambers found themselves at a crossroads. Just like many others, the side struggled post-pandemic. Playing numbers dipped and opponents that had once been competitive fixtures suddenly steamrolled Jarrovians. They failed to record a single victory and conceded more than 1,200 points over the course of the season.
That could have been the beginning of the end for the squad, but they dug deep, made adjustments, and fought their way back from the brink.
Bottom of the Ruck caught up with Club Legend Barry Grimwood to talk about the lows and the perseverance that helped Jarrovians bounce back. A recent inductee into the Jarrovians Hall of Fame, Grimwood joined the club in the early 1980’s and has been a fixture at the club ever since. He is active throughout the region supporting the men’s, women’s and junior sides at Jarrovians.
Showing Up Anyway
When I asked what kept the squad together through such a difficult period, the answer wasn’t about tactics or training plans.
It was about people.
“A lot of the old-school vets who attend the club would always have an encouraging word after the game. Maybe we were lacking certain skill sets to progress, but the heart was there… plus there’s always the next game.”
That may be the most grassroots rugby answer imaginable. It takes heart to play the game and even more heart when things aren’t going well. There is beauty in not giving up when you’re facing difficult odds.
At the time, there was no promise that the following week would be any better. No guarantee that reinforcements were coming.
Sometimes survival is a victory in itself.
The Importance of One Win
The 2022/23 season wasn’t dramatically different in the standings.
There was only one victory, but that one result changed everything.
“Having put that first W on the board was a fantastic feeling, more so as it was against Seghill RFC, a team north of the Tyne who had been a bit of a nemesis to Jarrovians. The boost it gave to the team, and the club, was massive.”
Outsiders might look at a season with one win and see another disappointing year.
Inside the clubhouse, there was a glimmer of hope. That win was a silver lining. Just like in life, momentum in grassroots rugby rarely arrives all at once. It starts with a change in attitude, change in focus and small habits that lead to results.
In this situation, it was a single result, but a milestone that stood as a starting place.
New Faces, New Standards
The following season brought incremental improvement, with new players and fresh coaching ideas helping Jarrovians triple their win total from the previous season.
Three victories may not seem like much to write home about, but tell that to a squad that had only won one match the previous two seasons.
Those three wins laid the foundation for something much bigger.
Ahead of the 2024/25 campaign, the club underwent significant change.
A new coaching team arrived bringing higher standards and a fresh perspective. A new chairman, Mark Handy, himself a former player, stepped into the role after Brian Berry’s long service. A dedicated team manager helped strengthen the club behind the scenes.
Perhaps most importantly, Deacon Wallace took over as Captain.
“He had a fire in his belly and that was infectious, something we had not seen at the club since the mid-80s and 90s.”
Belief combined with strong leadership is a recipe for success.
Success Breeds Success
The transformation that followed was remarkable.
The same club that had spent years as the league’s whipping boys suddenly became champions of Durham/Northumberland Division 3, earning promotion to Division 2.
Looking back, the difficult years made the success even sweeter.
“Having gone through the seasons as the whipping boys of the league made the newly found success all the sweeter, meaning we were in with a fighting chance of decent recruitment, which has proved fundamental to where we are today. Success breeds success.”
There’s a lesson there for every grassroots club.
Players want to be part of something moving in the right direction. Even if it is small, incremental positive steps. Often that movement starts long before the league table reflects it. This is where the importance of leadership comes in. Strong leaders show the vision and build belief.
More Than the First XV
The turnaround hasn’t been limited to Saturday afternoons.
The club’s junior section has continued to flourish, now fielding multiple teams every Sunday. Many of those young players are coached by former players, supported by an army of passionate volunteers.
The club’s women’s side continues to grow.
Their men’s 2nd XV has returned.
A veterans team takes the pitch on Friday evenings.
Momentum is a funny thing. When you have it, things start to fall into place. However, none of it happens by accident and momentum can be lost much easier than it is gained.
“A lot of what has been achieved has been down to the volunteers whose numbers continue to grow.”
That sentence could probably be copied and pasted into the story of thousands of rugby clubs around the world.
Proving It Wasn’t a Fluke
Promotion often brings its own challenges.
The 2025/26 season tested Jarrovians against stronger opposition, but instead of falling back, they embraced it.
They finished fifth in Durham/Northumberland Division 2 with a 12-10 record. Their finish could have been even higher were it not for six narrow defeats. If a few of those matches went a different direction, the squad could have placed even higher.
The squad added the Durham Junior Cup to the trophy cabinet. Another piece of silverware and more confirmation that their turnaround wasn’t temporary.
Now, as the club looks ahead to the 2026/27 season and another year closer to its 50th anniversary, there’s genuine excitement about what comes next.
A Message to Clubs Fighting Their Own Battle
We know that clubs all throughout Clubland are struggling in different ways. Which makes telling stories like this even more important. Poor seasons happen as numbers ebb and flow. Every club struggles from time to time.
A bad game or season doesn’t make you a poor club.
So, for my final question to Mr. Grimwood, I asked what advice they would give to another grassroots club sitting at the bottom of its league, wondering whether things will ever improve.
The response deserves to be read by every club committee, coach, and player who has ever questioned whether it’s worth carrying on.
“Persevere. Field a team whenever possible. It may mean you’re on the wrong end of a thumping from the opposition. Don’t be afraid to ask for help from other clubs who may have more players than you and don’t get picked. They will be as grateful as you to get a game on a Saturday afternoon. They may like your setup and decide to stay.”
Grassroots rugby isn’t built by clubs that never struggle. It’s carried on by clubs that face those obstacles and find a way.
Jarrovians RFC is proof that a difficult season (or two or three) doesn’t have to define tomorrow.


































